In Valley today: Romance & sacrament underneath one roof
September 1, 2012 by admin
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In Valley today: Romance sacrament underneath one roof
Azhar Qadri/TNS
Srinagar, Aug 31
Come Saturday, and adore will be speak of a city in regressive Kashmir.
For dual uninterrupted days, immature organisation and women in Srinagar will mangle taboos to plead sacrament and intrigue and that too on a common platform. The arise would be a convention on Marriage and a Ethics during Ibn Khaldun auditorium on a Kashmir University campus.
The two-day seminar is a brainchild of Inspire Me a organisation of 7 students, 6 from International Islamic University Malaysia and one from University of Nottingham.
Apart from adore and relationships, a participants would plead concepts like halaal dating (dating underneath a tranquil sourroundings so that a hit stays quite platonic until such time as a dating integrate is assimilated in matrimony) and a effect in Islam. Other topics embody associate selection, engagement, nikah and post-marital ties between father and mother and their rights and duties for any other, says Mubashir Ahmad Wani, a final-year tyro of Mechatronics Engineering during a Malaysian university and a programme manager for a event.
The Kashmiri multitude has for prolonged confirmed overpower over such topics. A flourishing series of immature couples, however, are opting for adore marriages. So there is a consistent ideological scuffle demure regressive relatives wish to select a associate for their sons and daughters, though a new generation, that is unprotected to tellurian enlightenment by amicable networking sites and wire television, believes in self-selection, says Wani.
In Malaysia, there are these matrimony courses, so people know what matrimony is in Islam. We wish to organize something here on a same lines, he adds.
In Kashmir, marriages have turn a jubilee time for abounding though a weight for a bad since of intemperate rituals and customs, Wani said. The Jammu and Kashmir Government had in 2004 attempted to diminish extravagance in marriages by bringing a ceremonies underneath a Essential Commodities Act, limiting
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series of guest and a food to be baked during marriage feasts. The purgation magnitude failed.
Yaqeen-ul-Haq, a tyro of psychology during a Malaysian university, says a seminar also aims during imparting sex preparation to a girl in an Islamic paradigm.
There is an Islamic Paradigm and a Western Paradigm (to sex education). (In Kashmir), we feel dumbfounded by a Western Paradigm. What we are articulate here is a Islamic Paradigm. This is a height for youth, he says. On a choice of argumentative topics, Haq says: These things are already happening. Someone has to speak about it.