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Can a £1000 wedding from M&S give you the day of your dreams?

June 15, 2014 by  
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Wedding season is upon us. But with the average British affair costing more than £18,000 and more lavish events running into the tens of thousands, getting hitched can be an eye-wateringly expensive affair.

From the dream dress to endless pristine flowers, there seems to be no limit to what we will shell out when there are nuptials in the offing.

But could you save thousands by simply heading to the High Street and buying the whole shebang off-the-peg?

For the first time, Marks Spencer has entered the wedding fray and now offers everything from wedding bouquets to the cake, the big white dress to the bridal lingerie. So, should you organise your big day the MS way — and how much would you save if you did?

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Could M  S cater to all of your wedding needs and save you money? From the £99 bride's dress to the £199 morning suit (both pictured) choosing the high street store could save you thousands. But can they deliver the goods? GEMMA CHAMP finds out

Could M S cater to all of your wedding needs and save you money? From the £99 bride’s dress to the £199 morning suit (both pictured) choosing the high street store could save you thousands. But can they deliver the goods? GEMMA CHAMP finds out

£99 Bride’s dress

With its rich duchesse-satin-style finish and classic draped cut (main picture), this is a great dress — and you don’t have to order it six months in advance, unlike most wedding dresses. It would certainly work for a low-key wedding or a civil ceremony, but dressed up with the right accessories and veil, it could pack a real punch in church, too.

Bridal designer Catharina Eden is seriously impressed with the price. ‘The finish is excellent, with good detailing,’ she says. ‘There’s a good-quality close-fitting lining under a stretch-satin outer layer which stops it from clinging and means it fits beautifully. This is such a simple dress, but it could cost £1,200 in a bridal shop or as much as £2,500 for bespoke. It’s a real bargain.’

And while it might be cheap, it’s a universally flattering shape, gently skimming the hips and hugging the curves without revealing too much. The wide V-neckline gives a hint of decolletage without looking tackily buxom, and the subtle ruching hides any lumps and bumps. It is,  however, a bit short if you want to wear sky-high heels or have always dreamed of a fairytale train.

£199 morning suit

While this suit (right) might not have the perfectly slippery silk twill lining of a Savile Row number, the cut is as classic as you could hope for. A bespoke version on the famous street could cost anything from £1,500 to £5,000. Made of a wool/polyester mix, it’s less likely to crease.

And add the right pocket square and cravat to this one and it could easily pass for a far more expensive suit. Any bride would be delighted to see her groom so finely dressed.

£89 Bridesmaids dress

This delicate blush dress is the perfect summer colour and will work well with most skin tones. And it costs £89

This delicate blush dress is the perfect summer colour and will work well with most skin tones. And it costs £89

The choice of dress for an adult bridesmaid is one of the great dilemmas of a wedding: do you put them in a hideous frock to make the bride look better, or risk going down the Pippa  Middleton route with something a little too flattering? And if you have more than one, how do you make sure they all look good, when they have different figures?

This delicate blush dress could be the answer: a perfect summer colour, it will work well with most skin tones, while the shape will flatter even the hippiest of figures.

The fabric’s sunray pleats skim over any faults, while cleverly  creating slimming contours on the bust, waist and hips, but it remains demure. No chance of rear of the year awards here.

The downside? It’s sleeveless, so does nothing to mitigate the dreaded upper-arm flab. If your bridesmaids fail to banish their bingo wings before your big day you could always opt for a lace shrug — much classier than a stiff bolero jacket — to temper the issue. As this simple gown costs just £89, as opposed to the many hundreds you could pay in a specialist wedding shop, it might be well worth doing just that.

£150 flowers

For £150, MS can provide a bridal bouquet, two bridesmaids bouquets and four button holes

For £150, MS can provide a bridal bouquet, two bridesmaids bouquets and four button holes

MS has long been known for no-nonsense, affordable flowers, but wedding bouquets are a different area. This classy collection costs £150 for a bridal bouquet, two bridesmaid bouquets and four buttonholes.

As the average bride spends £560 on wedding flowers, with designer arrangements running into the thousands, you’re already winning. According to Judith Blacklock,  principal at the Judith Blacklock flower school, the MS arrangement arrived as fresh as a daisy.

Bunches — available to order only online — are delivered within 21 days in cardboard boxes using  modified atmosphere packaging that seals the flowers in airtight bags, using no water, keeping them fresh during transportation by  slowing down their respiration rate.

‘All stems look beautifully  prepared. They are clean, free from thorns and have been carefully arranged. If you squeeze around the bottom of a rose and it feels firm and solid, you’ll know they’re only days from being picked. These were, and I’d wager would last at least a week, although I was disappointed that some of the roses were a little small, not symmetrical and looked to have lost a couple of petals.

‘I was extremely impressed with the button holes though,’ adds Judith. ‘They’d used green stem tape to secure the arrangement and seal the ends and fine wiring to keep everything neat and tight.

‘The ribbons used to secure the bouquets were a bit of a let-down. They were rough cut and too thick to look truly elegant.

Other than that, MS has done well with blooms more than  adequate for a wedding but without the creativity and flair that can be given by a designer florist.’

Birdcage wedding cake

Peggy Porschen, who made Sir Elton John's cake, said MS's offering is both delicious and a great centerpiece

Peggy Porschen, who made Sir Elton John’s cake, said MS’s offering is both delicious and a great centerpiece

 

Peggy Porschen, who has catered for celebrities such as Sir Elton John, says the most important thing is that the cake ‘should taste as delicious as it looks and hold its own as a centre piece’. MS scores on both points.

Peggy says: ‘The sponge is light and moist with a buttery taste, but needs a touch of vanilla. The fruit cake was OK, but I prefer it with more brandy and chunkier fruit. The designs are decent — my only quibble is the finish in some cases was a little clumsy.

‘For a luxury cake, of a similar style to this MS birdcage design, we might charge  anything from £1,000 upwards depending on size and detail.’

There are 16 different MS cake designs to browse online. Made to order, they take up to 21 days to arrive. This design costs £349.

Little ones

A Flower girl's dress isn't cheap at £72 - but it is very special. And for page boys, the whole outfit - including tiny cufflinks - comes to a fantastically well-priced £32

A Flower girl’s dress isn’t cheap at £72 – but it is very special. And for page boys, the whole outfit – including tiny cufflinks – comes to a fantastically well-priced £32

The flower girls and page boys offer endless opportunities for oohs and aahs — second only to the bride, in fact — and these dinky outfits really live up to the billing.

The bridesmaid dress is not cheap at £72, but is very special. Made of real raw silk with a  cooling cotton lining, there are layers of French-seamed tulle, as well as a gathered petticoat for extra volume.

The soft silk pink sash is delightful, too, and any little girl dressed in this will feel like a fairy princess. In bridal shops, flower-girl frocks can cost £200.

It’s all about easy care for  fidgety page boys: a washable waistcoat, a Velcro-on cravat and a 100 per cent cotton shirt with a stiffened wing collar.

The most adorable touch is the tiny knot cufflinks on  the shirt.

At MS, the total is £32. You could be looking at £100 for an equivalent outfit in the bridal market.

Lingerie — and garter

MS is known for its good underwear - and this French lace bridal set is no exception. The bra costs £32.50 and knickers £9.50 - with a garter costing a very reasonable £9.50

MS is known for its good underwear – and this French lace bridal set is no exception. The bra costs £32.50 and knickers £9.50 – with a garter costing a very reasonable £9.50

If there’s one thing you’re guaranteed to find in MS, it’s good underwear, and this bra set is no exception.

The French lace looks extremely fine, and the tidy briefs mean there should be no visible panty line.

The bra is a multiway with a very low front, allowing plenty of options for the neckline, and good padding in the cups — just enough to lift a little. The bra costs £32 and the knickers £9.50.

Also selling for £9.50, the little garter is a lovely affordable extra. If, instead, you splash out on Agent Provocateur’s Abbey bridal collection, you’ll be looking at £235 for the bra and briefs, with a garter costing about £35.

The Verdict

The whole kit and caboodle  costs just £1,041. For that you’ve dressed the bride, groom,  bridesmaids, flower girl and page boy, ordered the bouquet and  buttonholes, chosen MS’s most moreish cake, and you’re still almost £17,000 up on the average bridal party.

Of course, this doesn’t include your venue or catering, but even if you spent right up to the limits on the other aspects of your wedding, you’re still going to be ahead.

Fathers-of-the-bride take note . . .

 


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narnia,

Wellingborough, United Kingdom,

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Wellingborough, United Kingdom,

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Wellingborough, United Kingdom,

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GK,

Liverpool, United Kingdom,

40 minutes ago

no wonder this website makes so much money. Every ‘news article’ is an advert. I thought you were legally obliged to label them as adverts???

Aurora,

Co Durham, United Kingdom,

1 hour ago

Nice advert for MS… Our wedding cost £1500 and more importantly we saved up for it and paid for it all ourselves. Still happily married five years later; meanwhile my friend who had a stupidly lavish wedding and reception is now onto husband number two…

Leonie Delt,

Norwich, United Kingdom,

1 hour ago

I got married 16 years ago and the license cost £52. That was it. What else do you need?…x

berniebabes,

United Kingdom, United Kingdom,

1 hour ago

My sister had a budget wedding and got her cake from marks n spencers the guests loved it they went back for more. It tasted better than some expensive ones I’ve tried.

RH,

West Midlands, United Kingdom,

2 hours ago

All looks lovely.

Emporers New Clothes,

London, United Kingdom,

2 hours ago

I’ve always said the bigger the wedding the faster and more spectacular the divorcethe divorce. What should matter is BEING MARRIED and BEING TOGETHER, being flashy and wasting money, is just that!

Eureka,

GB,

19 minutes ago

I wholeheartedly agree.

up here,

York, United Kingdom,

2 hours ago

Fathers of the bride? I have yet to meet any girls parents willing to cough up for anything.They assume someone, anyone will take care of their daughters and the finances.Relatives, people I know and the girls of my sons have never had a single £ from their parents for anything. We have paid for cars, rents deposits, you name it.
The girlfriends parents , happy for their daughters to live with a man, jet off abroad with their money.We were invited to my husbands nephews , and the couple were paying for themselves. They asked for money rather than a gift as they were so hard up. His sister and husband , or the brides parents paid nothing.
When the niece married, paid for by the couple themselves it was posh, but we were not invited to that. Says it all really. I’ve told my sons pie and a pint at The Bricklayers Arms will suit us fine! see how the brides family like that!

Mother Knows Best,

Herts, United Kingdom,

1 hour ago

We will pay for our daughter’s wedding as long as she doesn’t want anything stupidly expensive (pie and pint is fine by us!) and as long as she doesn’t already have children and is not already living with her partner when she gets married. What’s the point in paying for a big party to supposedly celebrate a momentous rite of passage, when they’re already married in all but name anyway? If she just wants an excuse for a party, she can pay for it herself! Maybe your relatives felt the same way?

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At size 50L, the world’s largest strapless bra: New underwear will allow …

June 13, 2014 by  
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18:48 EST, 9 June 2014


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Once an ample bosom meant shying away from strapless bras and their lack of support.

But now bigger-breasted women need not worry about wearing shoulder-baring summer dresses – thanks to a strapless bra designed especially for them.

The Naturally Close bra costs between £24 and £30 and is available in sizes up to 50L, making it the world’s largest without straps.

Bust a move: The Naturally Close bra costs £30 for the larger sizes, and is available in size 50L

Bust a move: The Naturally Close bra costs £30 for the larger sizes, and is available in size 50L

Unlike many other large underwear items, the Naturally Close bra is made of sheer fabric and uses silicone technology.

The bra can be worn conventionally, strapless, cross back, halter-neck and asymmetrically.

Silicone elastic is used along the neckline and under-band to ensure security.

The bra also has extra boning in the sides to enhance the bust shape and profile.

Lollie Todd, lingerie buyer at JD Williams, which produced the bra, said: ‘In the UK women often accept that a bigger bust means limited lingerie options and more often than not, rather less alluring ‘boulder-holders’.

Pugh 10/06/14

In Europe, the ladies refuse to forsake fashion for comfort.

‘We want to reassure the curvier lady that choosing between support and style isn’t the only option as the Brazil inspired bra offers both – embracing your curves with cutting edge technology.’

It is available in black, white, ivory, teal, pink and mocha.

The average Briton’s bra size is 34DD but experts have said the demand for larger ones is soaring – with 12 per cent of JD Williams customers wearing J,K or L cups.

The body shape of women has altered in the last few decades with many discovering they have developed bigger breasts due to changes in diet and lifestyle.

Bravissimo launched the first 28-inch back size and fitted shirts tailored for women with bigger chests as well as introducing the KK-cup size in 2009.

But the KK was not enough and customers soon complained that they needed an even bigger size.

In response the firm released the jumbo bra in cup sizes D to L in 2011.

Plus-size clothing retailer N Brown launched their own version of the strapless K bra in 2012 – which was jokingly dubbed a ‘hammock’. The bra was far from dowdy, with the firm crediting the garment for a recent rise in sales.

Its chief executive Alan White said the strapless bra was one factor behind a 2 per cent increase in sales in a six month period.

In a year, the 42K bra sold more than £100,000 of stock worldwide – accounting for a tenth of the company’s bra sales in 2011.


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George Kirkman,

Sullivan Indiana USA, United States,

1 day ago

Question, is a 50L in America and Britain the same thing? This isn’t one of those metric/English measurement snafus is it? Because the the model sure doesn’t look like an American 50L.

Debs,

Norwich, United Kingdom,

1 day ago

The user name should tell you all you need to know about Null. S/he thinks quite carefully before posting comments.

night_night,

south of the watford gap, United Kingdom,

1 day ago

Jessica rabbit springs to mind!!

True Blue,

Glasgow,

1 day ago

@ Null, default.

Stirred a hornets nest on here didn’t you little boy.
That’s because you are totally obsessed with commenting without thinking.
Give it up geek.

BigDog3,

London, United Kingdom,

1 day ago

Larger ladies still have weddings and parties to go to, where they need to wear a dress that might have awkward straps – no matter how big you are there’s nothing worse than having big bra straps showing! Too many negative comments!

Michael,

Wokingham, United Kingdom,

1 day ago

“demand for larger sizes is increasing……yes they are getting fatter!

null,

1 day ago

O Lord above we are gonna see a lot of puppy’s down by people’s bellybutton’s now lol

True Blue,

Glasgow,

1 day ago

@ Null, default. That’s twice today you’ve triple sent a “contribution” Calm down geek, there’s a good boy.

Max,

California,

1 day ago

Good grief, there are a lot of well-endowed women commenting on this article! How come I don’t see any of them around where I live and work?

am62,

yorkshire, United Kingdom,

1 day ago

Can’t wait and by the way my money’s on gravity!

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