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June 17, 2014 by  
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Wedding season is upon us. But with the average British affair costing more than £18,000 and more lavish events running into the tens of thousands, getting hitched can be an eye-wateringly expensive affair.

From the dream dress to endless pristine flowers, there seems to be no limit to what we will shell out when there are nuptials in the offing.

But could you save thousands by simply heading to the High Street and buying the whole shebang off-the-peg?

For the first time, Marks Spencer has entered the wedding fray and now offers everything from wedding bouquets to the cake, the big white dress to the bridal lingerie. So, should you organise your big day the MS way — and how much would you save if you did?

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Could M  S cater to all of your wedding needs and save you money? From the £99 bride's dress to the £199 morning suit (both pictured) choosing the high street store could save you thousands. But can they deliver the goods? GEMMA CHAMP finds out

Could M S cater to all of your wedding needs and save you money? From the £99 bride’s dress to the £199 morning suit (both pictured) choosing the high street store could save you thousands. But can they deliver the goods? GEMMA CHAMP finds out

£99 Bride’s dress

With its rich duchesse-satin-style finish and classic draped cut (main picture), this is a great dress — and you don’t have to order it six months in advance, unlike most wedding dresses. It would certainly work for a low-key wedding or a civil ceremony, but dressed up with the right accessories and veil, it could pack a real punch in church, too.

Bridal designer Catharina Eden is seriously impressed with the price. ‘The finish is excellent, with good detailing,’ she says. ‘There’s a good-quality close-fitting lining under a stretch-satin outer layer which stops it from clinging and means it fits beautifully. This is such a simple dress, but it could cost £1,200 in a bridal shop or as much as £2,500 for bespoke. It’s a real bargain.’

And while it might be cheap, it’s a universally flattering shape, gently skimming the hips and hugging the curves without revealing too much. The wide V-neckline gives a hint of decolletage without looking tackily buxom, and the subtle ruching hides any lumps and bumps. It is,  however, a bit short if you want to wear sky-high heels or have always dreamed of a fairytale train.

£199 morning suit

While this suit (right) might not have the perfectly slippery silk twill lining of a Savile Row number, the cut is as classic as you could hope for. A bespoke version on the famous street could cost anything from £1,500 to £5,000. Made of a wool/polyester mix, it’s less likely to crease.

And add the right pocket square and cravat to this one and it could easily pass for a far more expensive suit. Any bride would be delighted to see her groom so finely dressed.

£89 Bridesmaids dress

This delicate blush dress is the perfect summer colour and will work well with most skin tones. And it costs £89

This delicate blush dress is the perfect summer colour and will work well with most skin tones. And it costs £89

The choice of dress for an adult bridesmaid is one of the great dilemmas of a wedding: do you put them in a hideous frock to make the bride look better, or risk going down the Pippa  Middleton route with something a little too flattering? And if you have more than one, how do you make sure they all look good, when they have different figures?

This delicate blush dress could be the answer: a perfect summer colour, it will work well with most skin tones, while the shape will flatter even the hippiest of figures.

The fabric’s sunray pleats skim over any faults, while cleverly  creating slimming contours on the bust, waist and hips, but it remains demure. No chance of rear of the year awards here.

The downside? It’s sleeveless, so does nothing to mitigate the dreaded upper-arm flab. If your bridesmaids fail to banish their bingo wings before your big day you could always opt for a lace shrug — much classier than a stiff bolero jacket — to temper the issue. As this simple gown costs just £89, as opposed to the many hundreds you could pay in a specialist wedding shop, it might be well worth doing just that.

£150 flowers

For £150, MS can provide a bridal bouquet, two bridesmaids bouquets and four button holes

For £150, MS can provide a bridal bouquet, two bridesmaids bouquets and four button holes

MS has long been known for no-nonsense, affordable flowers, but wedding bouquets are a different area. This classy collection costs £150 for a bridal bouquet, two bridesmaid bouquets and four buttonholes.

As the average bride spends £560 on wedding flowers, with designer arrangements running into the thousands, you’re already winning. According to Judith Blacklock,  principal at the Judith Blacklock flower school, the MS arrangement arrived as fresh as a daisy.

Bunches — available to order only online — are delivered within 21 days in cardboard boxes using  modified atmosphere packaging that seals the flowers in airtight bags, using no water, keeping them fresh during transportation by  slowing down their respiration rate.

‘All stems look beautifully  prepared. They are clean, free from thorns and have been carefully arranged. If you squeeze around the bottom of a rose and it feels firm and solid, you’ll know they’re only days from being picked. These were, and I’d wager would last at least a week, although I was disappointed that some of the roses were a little small, not symmetrical and looked to have lost a couple of petals.

‘I was extremely impressed with the button holes though,’ adds Judith. ‘They’d used green stem tape to secure the arrangement and seal the ends and fine wiring to keep everything neat and tight.

‘The ribbons used to secure the bouquets were a bit of a let-down. They were rough cut and too thick to look truly elegant.

Other than that, MS has done well with blooms more than  adequate for a wedding but without the creativity and flair that can be given by a designer florist.’

Birdcage wedding cake

Peggy Porschen, who made Sir Elton John's cake, said MS's offering is both delicious and a great centerpiece

Peggy Porschen, who made Sir Elton John’s cake, said MS’s offering is both delicious and a great centerpiece

 

Peggy Porschen, who has catered for celebrities such as Sir Elton John, says the most important thing is that the cake ‘should taste as delicious as it looks and hold its own as a centre piece’. MS scores on both points.

Peggy says: ‘The sponge is light and moist with a buttery taste, but needs a touch of vanilla. The fruit cake was OK, but I prefer it with more brandy and chunkier fruit. The designs are decent — my only quibble is the finish in some cases was a little clumsy.

‘For a luxury cake, of a similar style to this MS birdcage design, we might charge  anything from £1,000 upwards depending on size and detail.’

There are 16 different MS cake designs to browse online. Made to order, they take up to 21 days to arrive. This design costs £349.

Little ones

A Flower girl's dress isn't cheap at £72 - but it is very special. And for page boys, the whole outfit - including tiny cufflinks - comes to a fantastically well-priced £32

A Flower girl’s dress isn’t cheap at £72 – but it is very special. And for page boys, the whole outfit – including tiny cufflinks – comes to a fantastically well-priced £32

The flower girls and page boys offer endless opportunities for oohs and aahs — second only to the bride, in fact — and these dinky outfits really live up to the billing.

The bridesmaid dress is not cheap at £72, but is very special. Made of real raw silk with a  cooling cotton lining, there are layers of French-seamed tulle, as well as a gathered petticoat for extra volume.

The soft silk pink sash is delightful, too, and any little girl dressed in this will feel like a fairy princess. In bridal shops, flower-girl frocks can cost £200.

It’s all about easy care for  fidgety page boys: a washable waistcoat, a Velcro-on cravat and a 100 per cent cotton shirt with a stiffened wing collar.

The most adorable touch is the tiny knot cufflinks on  the shirt.

At MS, the total is £32. You could be looking at £100 for an equivalent outfit in the bridal market.

Lingerie — and garter

MS is known for its good underwear - and this French lace bridal set is no exception. The bra costs £32.50 and knickers £9.50 - with a garter costing a very reasonable £9.50

MS is known for its good underwear – and this French lace bridal set is no exception. The bra costs £32.50 and knickers £9.50 – with a garter costing a very reasonable £9.50

If there’s one thing you’re guaranteed to find in MS, it’s good underwear, and this bra set is no exception.

The French lace looks extremely fine, and the tidy briefs mean there should be no visible panty line.

The bra is a multiway with a very low front, allowing plenty of options for the neckline, and good padding in the cups — just enough to lift a little. The bra costs £32 and the knickers £9.50.

Also selling for £9.50, the little garter is a lovely affordable extra. If, instead, you splash out on Agent Provocateur’s Abbey bridal collection, you’ll be looking at £235 for the bra and briefs, with a garter costing about £35.

The Verdict

The whole kit and caboodle  costs just £1,041. For that you’ve dressed the bride, groom,  bridesmaids, flower girl and page boy, ordered the bouquet and  buttonholes, chosen MS’s most moreish cake, and you’re still almost £17,000 up on the average bridal party.

Of course, this doesn’t include your venue or catering, but even if you spent right up to the limits on the other aspects of your wedding, you’re still going to be ahead.

Fathers-of-the-bride take note . . .

 


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moody73,

Cambridge,

1 day ago

I bought my wedding cake from MS 6 yrs ago and it was delicious! Cost about £60! I bought my white long stem roses from John Lewis and made my own bouquet, button holes for all 60 guests, for less than £100! It can be done!

redskelf,

Bexhill, United Kingdom,

1 day ago

The bigger the wedding, the shorter the marriage!

desertprincess,

Australia,

1 day ago

I think the whole wedding thing has gotten out of control, I find it unimaginable to pay $20+ grand, its a deposit for a house.

null,

1 day ago

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assunta,

rome, Italy,

1 day ago

I am positive that can be done for less

RubyRoo,

Gloucester, United Kingdom,

1 day ago

I got married last year, for under £500. And we had a great day. :-)

OneDirectioner_,

belfast, United Kingdom,

1 day ago

If it makes them happy then yes!

Sheila,

Toronto Canada,

1 day ago

It doesn’t matter how much is spent, lack of class always shows. These MS items look great. Can’t imagine why people spend so much elsewhere – and end up in debt so often.

Tezz,

South, United Kingdom,

1 day ago

More to the point – when I got divorced, it only cost me £40 – money well spent!

Elle-vesse,

Edinburgh,

1 day ago

Best £125 I ever spent

TishTash,

Manc, Western Sahara,

1 day ago

Makes a change not to see a pudgy bridge squashed into an inappropriate dress, like the Michelin Man.

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How to make sure your online purchases fit

June 17, 2014 by  
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In the market for some new beachwear but want to skip the dressing room drama? Do you love shopping online, but hate the game of Russian Roulette you play when picking out a size?

These days, finding adorable outfits online is easier than ever before, but the process of choosing the perfect fit can be a frustrating exercise. But we’re living in the future, so don’t fall into the never-ending “will it fit?” trap: Smart shopping tech is here to save you with virtual dressing rooms and sizing apps.

1. True Fit

With a little bit of honesty, True Fit is all kinds of awesome at helping you pick out the ideal style to match your body type. Simply answer a few questions about your body and the True Fit database will crunch your data to tell you what styles are right for you.

Size is only half the battle, so True Fit not only helps you pick out the right size but also takes into account how each piece of clothing matches up with your body type. If True Fit’s crowdsourced data says the cute top you’re looking at just doesn’t work with your measurements, it’ll warn you and suggest something better, just like a trusty friend.

2. ThirdLove

Most people won’t see you in your undies — unless you’re having a particularly wild Spring Break — but just because they’re private doesn’t mean they can’t be luxurious and sexy. ThirdLove is all about amazing bras and panties, and the ThirdLove app is your perfectly personal measuring tool.

All you need is your smartphone, a mirror and a well-lit room for the app to work its measurement magic. Snap a couple of photos within the app and ThirdLove will match you up with the ideal selection of adorable unmentionables. You can browse, compare and order right from within the app, making it the ultimate in undie shopping convenience.

3. TrueCo

Site TrueCo also focuses on the clothes you wear under the clothes you wear. This company is so sure it will find the perfect-fitting skivvies for you that it lets you try — at home — before you actually buy.

Take a quick survey and honestly dish a little about your love-hate relationship with your lingerie. Based on your responses, TrueCo shows you what should fit. You pick out a few brands and sizes that look good to you, and the company picks out a few more. You plunk down a $45 refundable deposit, TrueCo mails you five different bras. You keep what you want, and send back the rest in a pre-paid mailer. Easy peasy.

4. Fits.me

We all dream of having a fitting room right in our own home, but until 3-D printers get to the point where we can snatch a piece of clothing out of thin air, Fits.me is as close as we’re going to get.

Using the site’s “Virtual Fitting Room,” you enter your measurements to create a digital version of your own body, and then play dress-up to your heart’s content. Pick out a virtual wardrobe from tons of high-fashion brands and see how different sizes will fit on you before using your credit card.

5. Zappos OOTD

If you’d rather let someone else pick out a look for you, Zappos is willing to do the work for free. The popular online clothing shop is using its Instagram skills to match people up with fantastic outfits from its massive collection of brands.

Simply post a body selfie on Instagram with the hashtag #NextOOTD, which stands for “Outfit of the Day,” and you’ll get a reply with a customized outfit picked out specifically for you. It’s the perfect way to discover styles you might never have considered, and since all the items Zappos suggests are available in its online shop, you’ll never have to worry about being disappointed by an empty shelf.

6. ItsMeSee

If you really want to take your digital shopping experience to a never-before-seen level,ItsMeSee might be right up your alley. The company aims to eliminate buyer’s remorse by giving you as many techy shopping tools as you can handle, from basic sizing assistance all the way to creating a virtual clone able to try on an endless number of outfits.

The most basic version of ItsMeSee shows you a generic mannequin to dress up with various items. Enter a few size measurements and your experience becomes a bit more catered, but that’s just the beginning. If you really want to go all-out, you can enter every measurement imaginable, snap a suite of selfies, and let the system build a 3-D version of you that acts as the ultimate fashion guinea pig. ItsMeSee is currently seeking funding, so you can get in on the ground floor.

With all these shopping tools at your disposal, your days of misfit attire will be a thing of the past. So, leave changing rooms in the past, and embrace the new digital age of dress up!

Jennifer Jolly is an Emmy Award-winning consumer tech contributor and host of USA TODAY’s digital video show TECH NOW. E-mail her at techcomments@usatoday.com. Follow her on Twitter: @JenniferJolly.

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