How to Buy the Perfect Lingerie to Get His Attention

Marriage is probably the most beautiful thing in everyone’s life. But as it brings with it lots of excitement and fun in the initial phase, there is also the possibility of the “magic” being lost over the years. The intimate moments, the passion and longing might subside as it all gets too “everyday” and mundane. As years go by, the sweet shy bedroom moments can become almost non-existent. The excitement of shopping for, and wearing attractive lingerie, the thrill of wearing it for the first time, and expecting his admiring gazes is almost forgotten by many women! This can lead to both of you getting bored after a while.

Even though it is not the only important thing in married life, it cannot be denied that physical intimacy does play a huge role keeping your bond strong. Did you know that the thing that you might have started to ignore can help you bring back the magic? Yes, we are talking about lingerie- something that most of you probably didn’t give much thought to, after a few years of marriage. Read to know some great tips to bring the lost charm back to your bedroom.  

#1. Cover Up Well 

Yes, you read that right. Cover up! Choose from multiple layers, like robes, long nighties, lacy night wear with 3-4 pieces. Remember the first few weeks of your marriage? Let him enjoy undressing you bit by bit, item by item. There is some “opening the present” feeling associated with this that we assure you, he will enjoy. While choosing lingerie, go for a stylish balconette bra and a full coverage lacy panty, instead of a barely-there thong. However, if your husband is a big fan of thongs and G-strings, then cover it up with a cute-looking, sheer panty and garter belt in the pretence to hold up stockings.

#2. Go Opaque

Selecting the right fabric is very important. Remember the fact that you want to get back to the “shy bride” stage again, or at least act like one. So, bold skin show in see-through fabrics is a complete no-no. Let his eyes keep searching for more (if you know what we mean!). Opt for more opaque fabrics like flirty silk or satin with lace trimmings.

Choose styles that have lots to tie-up, like laces, ribbons, strings, etc. Nighties with side lace will definitely work best here. The idea is the same- to let him work harder and wait longer to get you.

Go virgin white! Yes, nothing can beat the classic white that represents purity. You can add touches of baby pink or peach to the white for some colour. There is a certain innocence that can be associated with colours like white, peach, pink, sky blue, etc. If you feel that it looks a little bland, you can always add some accessories like a string of pearls or seductive stockings.

#5. Surprise Him!

Well, we agree that you both are extremely comfortable with each other by now, and the word “surprise” can be a little difficult, at least in the bedroom. But, you can always give him something that he never expected you to do! How about dressing up like a white bride or a seductive nurse or even a feline beauty once in a while? The key here is to get creative, and live your fantasy without any boundaries.

Things like these can add an instant freshness to your intimate life, and bring back the charm. There are numerous lingerie options available in the markets these days for you to choose from. Oh, along with your lingerie, don’t forget to set the mood with right lighting, some scented candles and romantic music!

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House GOP Bucking Big Business’s Priorities

WASHINGTON (AP) — Traditional ties between the business community and the Republican Party are fraying on Capitol Hill, where the House GOP has bucked corporate interests on a series of priorities this year, from immigration to highway funding to trade.

Rebuffed in Congress, the U.S. Chamber of Commerce and other business groups have found more success backing pro-business candidates for election, but even they don’t always deliver.

It adds up to a significant shift in how the GOP operates, ushered in by the rise of the tea party movement and its distrust of the federal government and of big corporate America. But whether the business community’s success this year in electing its favored candidates in primaries can swing the pendulum back its way remains to be seen. And this is amid plentiful evidence that the Chamber of Commerce and other business groups are struggling to get a hearing from congressional conservatives who outright reject their goals and are having outsized influence on House leaders and legislation.

“I think it’s the Chamber that’s drifted away from conservative pro-business values, not Republicans,” said Rep. John Fleming, R-La., a conservative who said that the Chamber of Commerce and other business groups may speak for corporate America, but they don’t speak for him. “I think that the Chamber has been moving away from its traditional role and that is to protect small businesses. I don’t know why.”

This past week the divide played out in the debate over whether to reauthorize the Export-Import Bank, a government agency that makes and guarantees loans to help U.S. exporters sell their products. It’s a priority for the business community, but conservatives have seized on it as the latest example of corporate welfare, with conservative groups like the Heritage Foundation urging lawmakers to stand opposed.

It’s certainly a minor matter to most voters, and some more establishment-aligned Republicans marveled that it’s become an issue at all.

“I never thought in my wildest dreams that the reauthorization of the Export-Import Bank could become a defining issue for Republicans,” said Rep. Charlie Dent, R-Pa.

Yet the conservative opposition has been such that the newly elected House majority leader, Rep. Kevin McCarthy, R-Calif., reversed himself and announced his opposition to the bank, and Speaker John Boehner, R-Ohio, a supporter in the past and a leading business ally, elected to remain neutral in this go-round.

As with last year’s government shutdown, it’s an issue where conservative Republicans swatted away the desires of business leaders and their GOP allies, in the process delighting Republican base voters and possibly turning off moderates.

“The Chamber was kind of like the Good Housekeeping Seal of Approval, but since 2007, 2008 I think that’s changed,” said John Feehery, a Republican consultant who worked for former House Speaker Dennis Hastert. “Some people see it as a negative, they see it as being suspect. And that’s a sea change really.”

It’s a shift Republican activists celebrate.

“It seems like K Street has had an upper hand at the GOP table, and I think that’s changing with the decentralization of politics that gives activists a bigger voice in the legislative process,” said Matt Kibbe, head of FreedomWorks, an advocacy group affiliated with the tea party.

Mainstream congressional Republicans tend to play down the rift, and Chamber officials say their relations remain good with most GOP lawmakers.

“I think the vast majority of congressional Republicans in the House and in the Senate are traditionally and historically, and continue to be, on basically the same page as the small, medium and large business community,” said Bruce Josten, executive vice president at the U.S. Chamber of Commerce.

“Are there some outliers within the conferences and caucuses that have different views?” Josten said. “Of course. There have always been outliers.”

Josten disputed the notion that House Republicans’ resistance to renewing the Export-Import Bank, overhauling immigration laws, replenishing the highway trust fund, or other issues was emblematic of a deeper trend.

Even so, the Chamber and other like-minded business groups have worked methodically this year to reduce the number of “outliers,” spending millions in Republican primaries to elect more mainstream Republicans over their tea party opponents. They have racked up a string of victories, from Senate races in North Carolina and Kentucky to one most recently in Mississippi, where incumbent Thad Cochran narrowly survived a tea party challenge.

But if the candidates they’re choosing are better than the alternatives, there’s little sign they share the Chamber’s priorities on all issues, particularly immigration, where the U.S. Chamber’s alliance with labor unions to support an overhaul alienated some conservatives. And the Chamber’s electoral involvement carries some risk, including hardening opposition from tea party lawmakers already on Capitol Hill who may not be going anywhere.

“It’s hard for me to offer my staff to the U.S. Chamber to have conversations when they are targeting my allies here in Congress,” complained Rep. Thomas Massie, R-Ky. “I think it undercuts their ability to have conversations with members of Congress.” 

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