Facebook: How young is too young?

Facebook rules say no one under age 13 should use the popular social networking site. That doesn’t stop preteens from using it.

That’s what Matt Schwartz, principal at the Adrian Middle School in Michigan, says.

“I would say it’s maybe 30 to 40 percent of our kids that are signed up on Facebook,” Schwartz said. “I know our kids are not 13 years or older, but somehow they’re doing it.”

Schwartz and other area educators say that’s not a good idea. So how young is too young for Facebook and other online networking sites?

“I think that’s really up to the parents,” said Nate Pechaitis, upper elementary school principal of Madison (Mich.) Elementary School. “I see more problems happening with it at the middle and high school levels. Honestly, I would prefer you have to be 18 to use it.”

Pechaitis said he hears of students who begin to use Facebook in fourth or fifth grades.

“I tell parents I believe they have to be 13 to sign up for Facebook, and there’s a reason for that,” he said. “Students generally aren’t mature enough to use it at such a young age. A lot of parent’s response is that ‘We use it to keep in touch with family.’ And my response is they should share a site and not give their kids their own Facebook page.”

There are two big dangers for young people using Facebook: predators who are trying to meet children and ugly online bullying or gossip that can be hurtful to teens and preteens.

Pechaitis said media reports about online predators are common knowledge. Children often don’t understand the dangers.

“They just get on and they don’t understand the privacy settings,” he said. “They just don’t realize they’re putting themselves out there, especially when they’re posting pictures, for the whole world to see.”

John Birdwell, school resource officer for the Adrian Police Department, said teens and parents need to be aware of the possibility of predators.

“The way I’ve been telling parents to combat that would be to know who their (children’s) friends are,” Birdwell said. “Friending people that you don’t know is when you get opened up to the possibility of a predator.”

Both Birdwell and Pechaitis have dealt with situations where online taunts have caused problems, especially with the large number of people who can read negative comments once they’re on the Web.

“It’s instantaneous and it’s viral, and it just passes so quickly,” Pechaitis said. “We haven’t had any major issues, but there’s been name-calling. There’s been feelings hurt.”

Madison Middle School Principal Brad Anschuetz said young adults often post hurtful comments on Facebook that they would never say in a face-to-face conversation.

“Inevitably, two or three times a year, I’ll have to work to mediate a problem between two students (from Facebook) and try to involve their parents so that the adults can help model for students the best way to solve problems through healthy dialogue,” he said.

Online, he said, problems get posted for everyone to see, “and then others tend to fuel the problem and keep it going.”

He said teens need to be aware that anything they post on Facebook can be shared with anyone else — even those who aren’t their Facebook “friends.” Parents should talk to their children about what is and is not appropriate to post on a social networking site and monitor their accounts, Anschuetz said.

Russell Robinson of Adrian is one parent who felt pressure from his child to let her sign up for Facebook.

Makaylah is 11 and will be entering sixth grade. He’s decided to ignore the advice of many, but says he places enough restrictions on her use that he’s comfortable. He realizes the minimum age for a Facebook account is 13, but he decided it would be OK to let her sign up as long as he closely monitored her usage.

“She’d been pestering me for quite awhile about getting an account, and I was kind of leery about it,” Robinson said. “I talked it over with my wife, and we came up with the ground rule that she couldn’t be on it unless my wife and I are there.”

Makaylah doesn’t even know the password to her account, he said.

“She’s not allowed, of course, to accept any friend requests without asking me first,” he said. “Because there are a lot of creeps out there in cyberspace.”

Robinson set up Makaylah’s privacy settings so that only her approved friends can view what she posts on her Facebook wall.

“There’s a lot of security on Facebook,” said Robinson, who has had his own Facebook account for a couple of years.

While he doesn’t like the idea of someone as young as Makaylah being on Facebook, Adrian Middle School’s Schwartz does share Robinson’s views about the importance of parents monitoring their children’s social networking activity. He believes that’s important even with older children.

“My 16-year-old, we monitor it,” Schwartz said. “Our computer is in an open area in the house, so whenever we go by it, we can see it. We can access it.”

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Guy Fawkes Day could be destructive for Facebook hackers

BY BOB HOLT

NEWJERSEYNEWSROOM.COM

Is there extra reason to remember the fifth of November this year? A hacker group known as Anonymous has announced via YouTube video that they plan to “destroy” Facebook on Nov. 5, accusing the social networking giant of abusing user’s privacy.

According to Time, the video alleges that Facebook helps governments spy on people internationally, and claims “everything you do on Facebook stays on Facebook, and deleting your account is impossible.” It continues, “If you do delete your account your personal info still stays on Facebook and can always be recovered.”

The video was uploaded to a newly created “FacebookOp” account on July 16, but just began circulating among the media this week. The video narrator says: “Your medium of communication you all so dearly adore will be destroyed. If you want to protect the freedom of information then join the cause and kill Facebook for the sake of your own privacy.”

The date Anonymous has chosen for their destruction activity happens to be Guy Fawkes Day. According to the Christian Science Monitor, in 1605, British revolutionary Guy Fawkes had the idea to blow up the British Parliament, to restore Catholicism as the nation’s religion. Fawkes was found on Nov. 5 with explosives in the basement of the House of Lords in London, just moments away from lighting the match.

CNN reports that in December, Anonymous tried and failed to take down retailer Amazon. And in recent years, Anonymous has taken credit for hacking the websites of PayPal, Master Card, Visa and the Church of Scientology.

On Monday, Anonymous took credit for hacking the website of the Syrian Defense Ministry, putting in an anti-government message and the Anonymous logo. PC World reports Anonymous and affiliated group Lulz Security have targeted the U.S. Central Intelligence Agency, PBS.org, Fox.com and the U.K.’s Serious Organized Crime Agency for attacks in recent months.

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