How to choose the perfect vibrator for you

If the Fifty Shades trilogy has given you and your partner the inspiration to add a “toy friend” to your bedroom antics and maybe act out your own sneak preview scenes from the forthcoming movie, we can guide and help you as to where best to kick off.

People throw around words like the ‘rampant rabbit’, but how do rabbit vibrators differ from dildos and what other vibrators are there to choose from?

We at LadyFays Boudoir understand that finding the ideal vibrator, either as the woman, or as a gift for your better half, is not an easy task, so we are going to navigate you through the different kinds of vibrators available and the different buttons they will help you press.

Clitoral vibrators
Clitoral vibrators provide sexual pleasure and enhance orgasm by externally stimulating the clitoris.

If you reach intense and satisfying orgasms during direct stimulation of the labia area, be sure to choose a vibrator that includes this form of arousal.

Incorporate a toy like the Je Joue Mimi We-vibe Touch into your lovemaking and use it on the clitoris while having intercourse for a great stereo sensation. 

Dildos and g-spot vibrators
The g-spot is located between 3 and 8 cm in on the front of the vaginal wall, more or less at the back of the clitoris. The tiny, feminine, Bcute Classic  doesn’t go in too deep and is designed to hit that spot perfectly. 

If you are keen to try a toy with a slight curve, try the angled shaft Insatiable Desire Mini G-spot Vibrator to stimulate the g-spot without any effort.

The Rabbit
A rabbit vibrator is the ultimate multi-tasker, which is something that we ladies admire greatly in a helpmate. Like with the Smile Fancy  and Smile Bunny, the design incorporates two vibrators of different sizes which work in unison to produce simultaneous vaginal and clitoral stimulation.

The main shaft of a rabbit twirls for internal g-spot stimulation while the smaller ear concentrates on the outside clitoral area. We suggest that you try toys like the Lelo Soraya  or Silver Swan  for a deliciously intense double whammy sensation.

When it comes to choosing a vibrator, don’t forget that desire and aesthetics are deeply entwined so always select a playmate that you and your partner find sensually pleasing, sexually arousing and that will fuel your wildest fantasies so you feel stimulated and keen to let the Fifty Shades games begin.

This article is by Lady Fay at Lady Fay’s Boudoir, a safe place created by women to escape the everyday and liberate your saucy side with sexy lingerie  and sex toys.

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